in the midst of staying objective and rational

one will lose the empathy and emotional attachment you should have for another.

even the closest friends.

sometimes,

its not about the advice,

cos she already knows

that eventually, she's gonna be just fine.

its the sharing

a important part of the process

that makes one feels better.

crying with her should make it better.

its not wallowing in self-pity though.

there's this disappointment,

when you get slap with the big motivational talk

cos it jus makes it seem like

you do not understand it at all.



big talk doesn't makes one feel better.

so have more empathy.


llwei~