11Jan2008

how do we form perception of people?

i guess it depends on different individuals.
we have different values and ideas that allow us to form our own judgment upon people and the right or wrong.
but what i'm sure of is that perception on a person starts on day 1.
after which every word or thing he does,no matter how insignificant, will be taken into account in contributing to the formulation of the person's character, personality to another.
that is why i find observation very important a task.
observe to realise the minute details.
observe to see what others missed in the crowd.


a fren asked me earlier if i think he is a good person.
i smiled but was actually at a loss of words.

very often, we only believe in what we witness for ourselves, and thus the conclusion drawn by ourselves. at least this is what i believe in.

i cant say that i am kind honesty and smart, hoping that you will believe in me and for that image of me to be formed in the eyes and heart of another.
i believe that i have to build upon my actions and sincerity in my everyday life to formulate the image.
only then am i trustworthy and truthful.
and
if you do not believe me, then i'll work harder to make you believe in what i believe in and who i am.

these is what i expect of myself and thus that of others, who cares about how i look at them.

actions definitely speak louder then words.


i did not gave him an answer eventually.
i guess its because its cos i know his weaknesses too well.
he's not a bad person.
just a person with faults.


i think she's pretty. you think not.
i think there's something. you think there's none.
i think i can do it. you think you cant.


how different are we?

do you know?



llwei~